men’s mental health
In a world that often emphasises strength and resilience, the topic of men’s mental health can sometimes be overshadowed. The reality is that men, like anyone else, face mental health challenges, ranging from societal expectations to the pressures of personal and professional life.
Societal norms often dictate how men should express emotions, creating a fear of judgement. This can be especially difficult for fathers, as societal expectations may magnify the belief that they should be ‘unemotional’ for their families.
So, let’s talk about men’s mental health. Staying silent is rarely a solution. It’s time to speak openly, end the stigma and build a community where everyone’s mental health is a priority.
Common myths about men’s mental health
men should tough it out and handle problems alone
Expecting men to not express vulnerability can contribute to the suppression of emotions. It’s essential for men to feel comfortable expressing a range of emotions and seeking support when needed.
expressing emotions is a sign of weakness in men
Acknowledging and expressing emotions is a fundamental aspect of being human. Suppressing your emotions has a negative impact on your mental wellbeing. Real strength involves expressing and understanding one’s emotions.
men don’t experience mental health issues as often as women
Men and women have similar rates of mental health issues. However, men may be less likely to report or seek help due to stigma and traditional expectations around masculinity.
What mental health conditions are common in men?
Understanding your mental health is crucial. Recognising the specific challenges you may face is a big step towards good mental wellbeing. In this section, we shed light on common mental health conditions prevalent in men, highlighting the importance of early diagnosis and support.
Substance use
As a man, you’re more likely to turn to substances to cope with the stress or numb the pain coming from emotional distress, trauma or symptoms of mental health condition. In Scotland alone, men are three times more likely to experience a drug misuse death.
Suicidal thoughts
Men have a higher rate of completed suicides than women. Some of these signs of suicidal thoughts in men include social withdrawal, expressing feelings of hopelessness and changes in behaviour like sudden calmness or increased risk-taking. According to figures published by the National Records of Scotland, there were 792 probable suicide deaths in 2023, an increase of 30 from the previous year. In the same report, the suicide rate of males were three times higher than the rate for females.
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
Men, especially those in professions with a higher likelihood of exposure to trauma (e.g. military, emergency services), may experience PTSD. Men might experience PTSD symptoms differently from women. You may be more likely to express distress through externalising behaviours, such as anger, aggression or partaking risky activities.
If you or anyone you know suffers from PTSD, The Signature Project works with men over the age of 16, who have experienced either single or complex trauma and who are registered with a GP in Edinburgh. We address the physical, psychological and social impact of trauma and work towards whatever is important to them.
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
Whilst often associated with childhood, ADHD can persist into adulthood. As a man, you are more likely to be diagnosed with ADHD than a woman. Men with ADHD may struggle with focus, impulsivity, restlessness and hyperactivity, potentially affecting their everyday functioning at work and in a home environment.
What mental health conditions are underdiagnosed in men?
Although statistics show that women are more likely to be diagnosed, men are less likely to get treated. While men exhibit more externalising behaviours (i.e. behaviours directed outwards), such as anger and hyperactivity, women tend to have greater rates of internalising behaviours (i.e. behaviours directed inwards), such as fear and withdrawal.
This is why fewer men are diagnosed with depression and anxiety, which are considered internalising conditions. However, men are just as vulnerable to these conditions and it is important to get treated as soon as possible.
How can I support my mental health?
Coping strategies
Life can get tough. Developing your own coping strategies can make a big difference. Here are three practical ways to support your mental health:
- Mindfulness techniques offer a simple yet powerful way to ground yourself in the present moment. Try mindfulness techniques such as body scan meditation or grounding. Close your eyes and bring awareness to each part of your body, one by one, focusing on what you feel.
- Journaling is a great way to express emotions and gain insights into what’s going on in your mind. Grab a notebook, write down your thoughts and reflect on what’s happening in your life.
- Physical activity can boost mood, reduce stress and clear your mind. When feeling overwhelmed, take short breaks for physical activities. A quick walk or a few stretches can refresh your mind and body.
Connect with others
Share your feelings with friends or family. Positive social interactions are more than just niceties; they are essential for a healthy mind by providing you with support and a sense of belonging.
Prioritise self-care
Take time for activities you love. Hobbies and interests add a layer of joy and fulfilment to your life and keep your brain engaged. Explore creative outlets such as writing, painting or playing a musical instrument. There are many other ways to prioritise self-care, including good sleep, healthy eating and setting boundaries.
Seek support when needed
Don’t hesitate to reach out to a professional if you’re struggling. Joining a support group for men dealing with similar challenges can create a sense of community and understanding. Many support groups are available both in-person and online, some of which can be found at the bottom of this page.
Consider seeing a mental health professional, such as a psychologist, counsellor or therapist. They are trained to provide guidance and support for various mental health concerns.
Check if your workplace offers an Employee Assistance Programme (EAP). EAPs often provide confidential counselling and support services for employees.
What can I do to support men and their mental health?
Creating a supportive environment for the men in our lives involves more than just awareness – it requires action. In this section, we offer steps you can take to contribute to the mental health and wellbeing of men. To learn more, read our resource on how to support others with their mental health.
Encourage open conversations
Create a safe space for men to express their feelings and thoughts. Encourage open dialogue about mental health without judgement.
Challenge stereotypes
Promote healthy masculinity by challenging stereotypes that discourage emotional expression. Emphasise that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Check-in regularly
Regularly check in on the wellbeing of the men in your life. Simple questions (e.g. how are you doing?) can make a significant difference.
Educate yourself
Learn about common mental health challenges that affect men. Being informed enables you to provide more effective support, even if it’s just being more empathetic.
support
Our Advice and Support Service is open Monday to Friday, 10am to 4pm (closed for lunch between 12.30pm and 1.30pm), where advisers can signpost you to local support that most fits your needs, including our Change Mental Health services. We offer initial advice on money worries and help to deal with emergencies.
Contact 0808 8010 515, email us at advice@changemh.org or fill out the enquiry form on the Advice and Support Service page.
For immediate support, reach out to:
Samaritans (116 123) is a 24-hour anonymous service available every day of the year. If you prefer not to speak on the phone, you can email Samaritans at jo@samaritans.org.
Breathing Space (0800 83 85 87) is a website and phone service for anyone experiencing low mood, depression or anxiety.
NHS 24 by dialling 111 if you feel you need to speak with a medical professional but cannot wait for your GP.
CALM (Campaign Against Living Miserably) is a helpline for those struggling with their mental health, particularly those facing suicidal thoughts, and can be contacted on 0800 58 58 58. The helpline is available from 5pm to midnight every day.
There are men specific organisations too
Andy’s Man Club is a free peer-to-peer support group for men who need to talk or are experiencing mental health challenges.
Men Matter Scotland is dedicated to supporting men in crisis and promoting mental wellbeing. They provide a safe space for men to talk about their mental health, offering resources and support for male suicide prevention, emotional wellbeing and mental health issues.